Dating & Marriage Service Inside Secrets

November 4, 2007

Dating service dirty Secrets -Pt2

cullenpiano1.jpgHello and welcome to part 2 of my online and face to face dating service secrets..

Today I will explain in detail why people pay money to Some Dating services and do not get results,

I mean seriously this is how to fall into the trap of “hey why haven’t I got any ladies to choose me I’ve been a member for a year now and Nothing” Ok the first thing thats very important to understand is that if you do not have control of who is seeing you and choosing you. You can expect very sliggish results but as they say a broken watch is correct twice a day so if the members are REAL hopefully you’ll get someone interested in you enough to initiate contact with you before your membership expires.

Have you ever purchased a car and the next day something breaks and you take it to the guy you purchased it from and he takes great care of you ?? Sure that happens as long as you owe them money on the car..

Now try taking a car back to the same guy who has ALL of the money owed him what do you think he’s gonna say?? hit the road it’s sold as is.. We’ll once you join a dating program that requires all cash up front then there’s no motivation to give you great customer service when there’s several other customers out there who are ready to pay for the same service that you just paid for.

It’s a cycle of crap again and again and again recycling new money and staking up members rather the ratio of men to ladies or ladies to men are balanced or not.

TIP: If you are going to use a mailorder service that mails profiles they’ll offer you for example 50 profiles, 100 profiles or a 500 profiles etc etc.. Before you decide to spend a ton of money on 500 profiles try the small package first and contact as many of those members as you can for test purposes.

If your results are good then you will always have the opportunity to go back and purchase more later on. Don’t get caught up in the numbers because they could be profiles from 1977 .. ha ha ha sounds funny to me because I’m not the one who purchased them 🙂

If a dating service can Guarantee specific results I’d say it’s a lie in the beginning.

How in hell could I guarantee the girl across the street that this guy in my office will go out with her.. Unless I’m Paying him to date all of the girls in my service.. This gives the girls a perceived notion that guys are interested in them when actually maybe their not..

I never guarantee ANYTHING no matter how many or how few members I have because it’s truely impossible to guarantee results unless you are cheating your members thru the back door system meaning FAKE MEMBERS..FAKE FAKE FAKE..NOT GOOD. Fact in my online service I have a network of solid active members numbering over 1,300,000 and we don’t spam the world or force you to join but if you do you’ll see real results and be satisfied so check out Don’t be confused by the name because we have members from around the world. Our face to face service is in Japan and our website is it stands for International Love Network. Now back to business..

Mail order businesses were out BEFORE the internet BEFORE you had the ability to go online and pay $30.00 to $100.00 for memberships giving you access to millions of members. Now why in hell would someone pay $50.00 per month to receive 500 profiles of men or women when you can join a site online and meet pretty much 50% of those very members online as well as another million possibilities so these days the mailing service seems more and more outdated and very much in the stoneage of the dating world.

Dating services that send your profiles by mail to other members.

You pay for the chance to get your profile sent all over the place and you’ll get other members profiles in your mail as well. The problem with this is that there is nobody there at the persons home saying hey open this mail and look on page 14.

There is a guy very interested in you and he would love for you to call him right now. Even if you initiated contact with your type there is no one there to say hey come on give this guy a chance, he’s cool and not the best looking guy but I bet you will laugh and smile every second of the day when you are with him.. That’s the problem here, getting proper representation thru the mail and being able to sell yourself.

Tomorrow in part 3 of my Dating service dirty secrets I’ll tell you the Benefits and downfalls of joining a face to face matchmaking service.



November 3, 2007

Dating Service Dirty Secrets- Pt1

cullen4.jpgHi I’m Cullen, Welcome to my dating blog where I’ll take time out of my schedule to let the world know about the dating scene in Japan. As the owner of one of Japan’s most popular international websites and face-to-face meeting club I think that it’s my duty to give you some important information that should come in handy when you decide what dating service to use, how much to pay, what system to choose and how long you choose to participate.

 I’ll start with some big misconceptions that people have about dating services and I’ll get into some funny, sad and interesting events that I’ve experienced in this business so go get some great coffee and get ready to read a powerful story into dating  and marriage agencys behind the scenes.   I’ll begin with the most outrageous misconception about face to face dating and marriage services.  

Most people who haven’t had the privilege or good fortune to use a dating service thinks that the members must be terribly unattractive or what’s wrong with this person to have joined a dating service. OK here is the truth straight from someone who has over 12 years in this industry. Oh my god Oh my god is the three best words that I can say to describe the women that use dating services. 90% of the time I suddenly have the immediate desire to give up my business and come back as a customer 🙂 You think why would such lovely women use the service when guys are all over them on the street ??? The problem with this is that a guy on the street dose not have some very useful information listed on his forehead.

By a dating service a woman can check  out exactly who she is attracted to before saying even one word to him. She can see what he does in his career, what his hobbies are, if he drinks, smokes, has kids and education level and blood type among other things. These women use dating and marriage services because of the saftey, comfort and security that they feel during the first time meeting because the match maker is there introducing them and ensuring things go well. If things do not go well she’ll stay in the office environment for awhile while I tell the guy to go ahead and we’ll give it a try again in the near future.

If things go well they decide to leave and have dinner or a drink together and thats the first day of the rest of their lives.  The same senerio for men applies accept that men have no worries about safety but often have concerns about a woman’s qualities and family values and sometimes only her cooking ability ha ha.. Every single person that uses a Dating service can find someone on their own or at least 90% of them can.

The advantage of using a service to assist you with your dating conquest is that while you’re working, playing, on a vacation or even sleeping we are continously searching for someone special to match what you’ve requested on your matching form.

Imagine coming home after a long days work and hearing a message saying Hi.. Someone joined our service today and you were their very first choice, please come down and take a look at who this wonderful person is, if you accept her offer she would like to meet you at our office on Saturday at 8:00pm if you cannot come and see her information we’ll be happy to e-mail it to you for your eyes only.  

Stay tuned for part 2 the key to a delicious date Here are a couple of my favorite dating service links that I highly recommend .. Check out this site I love the talking babe…. .

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See you in a day or two for part 2 the key to a delicious date Cullen

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